| Why You Should Get to Know Me |
| ...bullshit. We're made to answer stupid questions that really don't bring us closer to anyone, and instead have the opposite effect of pushing us away. I see a lot of women that I'm attracted to; women that by virtue of their smile, or their beauty - what's attractive to me - make me want to email them. But then when I read their profile, I read that I'm 3 inches less in height than she's wanting, or 4 years too old for what she's looking for, blah blah blah. But is that truly what matters...what matters more than anything to that person? I don't know. But because she answered the way she did, I decide not to email her and thus nothing is potentially begun between us. And here's the crazy as shit sad thing for that woman - or man, because I know many women are thinking the same thing about what us men answered - and that's that she has no idea who the hell I am, or what I've done with my life. She has no idea how much money I make. She has no idea that I could be a millionaire with an amazing job, and that all I'm wanting to do is settle down and buy a house and start a family...or help put my new girlfriend - her - through her master's program. Or that I own properties in Europe and live there 6 months out of the year? Where's that box for me to answer those important questions on this site? Because let's be honest...isn't that what's most important; knowing that as a woman you'll be taken care of? That he's financially secure? (If that's what you're wanting, which come on...it is.) That he's got a great job, lives a certain type of lifestyle, has no debts, and flys all over the world whenever the hell he wants? Instead, none of you will know any of that stuff. All you'll know by looking at my profile, for example, is that I don't fit your "answers"; I'm 3 inches shorter than you say you want, or 4 years out of your age range. So don't you think it'd be better - when making an informed judgement on someone - to have all the facts? I do...but call me crazy. I didn't create this site, I'm just trying to improve it and expose it's flaws. Tell me, knowing someone has no debts and a net worth of 3 million dollars wouldn't perhaps influence your choosing to email that guy back or not...even if he was 4 years older than originally you were seeking?? But let's go ahead and reject everyone based on the less important stats..because yeah, I'd much rather be with a woman that fits my exact shopping list, then someone with whom I really might get along better with, if I knew the important things about her. (Does she have a good job? is she a woman who wants to change the world? Does she just want her man to work? Did she marry stupid, get divorced, and now needs a man to help her out?) But I'll never know so long as we're made to write down the most shallow crap about ourselves, instead of the revelatory stuff. (Religion aside because I do think that's important to people. Not to me, but most people require you be of the same faith as them. Zzzzzz to that. Yeah...thanks for all the wars, religion! Good for you!) If you agree with me - great - if not, then I don't care. I really don't. If it takes 1000 silly, insubstantial women to be pissed at me, just to get to the one cool girl that agrees with me, I can more than live with that. Oh yes, I can. Cheers! |
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| You know, it'd be nice to meet a kind woman. Someone who isn't self-involved. Someone who asks as many questions about me, as I do about her. 37 year old Man in Los Angeles, California
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